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Taboo: Products for Sensitive & Difficult-to-Discuss Topics

Some areas of life can feel hard to talk about — particularly when supporting older children, teenagers and adults with special educational needs (SEN). These may include body changes, personal behaviours, mental health, self-harm, or intimate care.

Our Taboo collection brings together practical, SEN-appropriate products that support dignity, safety and wellbeing around topics that are often avoided or misunderstood. Items are intended to support families, carers, schools and professionals in a respectful, non-judgemental way.

Masturbation, Stripping & Sensory Seeking

Some individuals may remove clothing or touch their bodies due to sensory seeking, temperature discomfort, or during puberty. Products in this section are chosen to support comfort, privacy and appropriate boundaries.

Zip-back and limited-access clothing (day or night)
Long-leg all-in-one garments and unitards
Cooling options for bedding or seating
Discreet distraction and tactile items

Periods & Menstrual Care

Periods can begin early and menstrual care can take time to learn and accept, particularly for neurodivergent individuals or those with learning disabilities. Products here focus on comfort, protection and dignity.

Period underwear and reusable pads
Underwear designed to hold pads securely
Bed protection for reassurance
Washable and reusable care options

Cutting, Skin Picking & Self-Harm Alternatives

Some people experience skin picking or self-harm behaviours, which may be linked to distress, anxiety or sensory needs. Products in this section are selected to prioritise safety and provide safer alternatives.

Self-harm distraction and safety kits
Wearable fidget and tactile items
Textured items suitable for desks or personal use
Protective options designed to reduce injury risk

Smearing & Toileting-Related Behaviours

Smearing can happen for a range of reasons, including sensory needs, medical issues or toileting awareness. Products in this section focus on dignity, hygiene and practical routines.

Adaptive clothing to limit access when needed
Specialist underwear and continence products
Bed and seating protection
Tactile alternatives for sensory seeking

Note: Products in this collection are not intended to replace professional support. They are practical tools that may be used as part of an individual support plan.

Masturbation, Stripping, and Sensory Seeking

Some children may engage in stripping behaviours due to sensory seeking, such as wanting to feel the air on their skin and not feeling restricted. This behaviour might be more common in hotter weather when they want to stay cool. To address this, consider using cool pads on the bed and keeping them in comfortable sleepsuits.

Playing with themselves is a natural part of puberty, and it can happen even for children with disabilities. It's important to be understanding and provide support, as they may not have the same social barriers to hiding it. You can provide books about masturbation, fidget toys, and suitable clothing such as zip-back, long leg clothing to prevent access and to help distract from excessive playing.

For further guidance, visit this helpful NHS resource: Puberty in Boys with Learning Disabilities

Periods

It's important to explain the various period products available, as some girls may start their period as early as 8 years old. Research suggests that autistic girls may experience their first periods earlier than others. Additionally, some neurodivergent children may need extra time to process information or get used to new concepts.

For guidance on positioning pads in underwear, check out this useful resource: Puberty and Periods in Girls with Developmental Delay

Cutting and Skin Picking

Providing safe cut kits and fidget bracelets can serve as alternatives to skin picking. You may also consider texture-based phone cases from Active Hands. These tactile items can be helpful as adjustments at school, with options to keep them on desks to support self-regulation.

Smearing

Some children engage in smearing due to sensory needs, medical conditions, or difficulties with toileting awareness. Understanding the root cause can help in managing this behaviour effectively. Strategies may include adaptive clothing, alternative sensory activities, or structured toileting routines.

For more in-depth support and advice, visit: Smearing Advice at Fledglings

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