Taboo

Masturbation, Stripping, and Sensory Seeking

Some children may engage in stripping behaviours due to sensory seeking, such as wanting to feel the air on their skin and not feeling restricted. This behaviour might be more common in hotter weather when they want to stay cool. To address this, consider using cool pads on the bed and keeping them in comfortable sleepsuits.

Playing with themselves is a natural part of puberty, and it can happen even for children with disabilities. It's important to be understanding and provide support, as they may not have the same social barriers to hiding it. You can provide books about masturbation, fidget toys, and suitable clothing such as zip-back, long leg clothing to prevent access and to help distract from excessive playing.

For further guidance, visit this helpful NHS resource: Puberty in Boys with Learning Disabilities

Periods

It's important to explain the various period products available, as some girls may start their period as early as 8 years old. Research suggests that autistic girls may experience their first periods earlier than others. Additionally, some neurodivergent children may need extra time to process information or get used to new concepts.

For guidance on positioning pads in underwear, check out this useful resource: Puberty and Periods in Girls with Developmental Delay

Cutting and Skin Picking

Providing safe cut kits and fidget bracelets can serve as alternatives to skin picking. You may also consider texture-based phone cases from Active Hands. These tactile items can be helpful as adjustments at school, with options to keep them on desks to support self-regulation.

Smearing

Some children engage in smearing due to sensory needs, medical conditions, or difficulties with toileting awareness. Understanding the root cause can help in managing this behaviour effectively. Strategies may include adaptive clothing, alternative sensory activities, or structured toileting routines.

For more in-depth support and advice, visit: Smearing Advice at Fledglings